Bernice Worthy Everett

Bernice Worthy Everett was born on May 22, 1937 in Sanford, North Carolina to Mattie Worthy. She was the identical twin of her younger sister, Bernetha Wesley Lyle. They were born only five minutes apart which cemented a lifelong bond.

The twins moved to Greenburgh, New York in 1950 where they attended Greenburgh Junior High School and White Plains High School. During these years, Bernice was known for her outgoing personality and sense of humor. She took pride in being a member of the cheerleading squad and the drill team. In addition to her extracurricular high school activities, she worked at Trencher’s Bridal Shop in White Plains as a salesperson. Her relationship with her sister also evolved and she became a sounding board and source of advice for Bernetha who she fondly referred to as “Sis.”

After graduating from High School in 1955, she accepted a position as an administrative assistant at Grassland Hospital in Valhalla, New York. In 1957 she met William Everett, and they married that same year. After welcoming their only child into the world, Kathy Everett-Gaines, on May 8, 1961, she left Grassland Hospital and became a stay-at-home mom. After three years, she decided to resume work and joined Maryknoll Fathers & Brothers in Ossining, New York as a computer input technician. Her family and friends recall that during her 38-year tenure she earned the respect and admiration of her co-workers and upper management while forming long lasting friendships. Her strong work ethic and dedication led to her pursuit of a second career in the field of culinary arts. She successfully operated a catering business from 1970 to 2010.

Bernice was a devoted member of the Eastern Stars. After joining Pentecost Assembly No. 86, she held various positions including Worthy Matron. She will be remembered for her hard work and dedication.

Bernice was a woman of diverse interests which included reading, cooking, bowling, music, and theatre. She loved the experience of attending live concerts. One of her fondest memories was accompanying Bernetha, and her daughter, Kathy, to a Smokie Robinson concert. Music never failed to lift her spirits. She would often start her day with “I Got You (I Feel Good)” by James Brown. She also enjoyed watching tennis, golf, football, and boxing.

Her loving and generous spirit will be missed by her devoted daughter, Kathy Everett-Gaines (Dwayne E. Gaines, Esq.) of Silver Spring, Maryland, a host of cousins, and friends.

Her passing on November 2, 2025, approximately 4 months after the death of her sister, Bernetha Wesley Lyle, underscores the depth of their connection. Bernice can now join her in the journey for peace and happiness.

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ATTENTION: As we continue to phase back into smaller capacity public visitations/services amid the continuing COVID & other various health concerns, we need your help in limiting/controlling the number of people, so please govern yourself accordingly for the health & safety of all. Thank you so kindly!

On Saturday December 6th, 2025, a time for friends to Gather/Visit will start 11:30AM, immediately followed by a Memorial Service at 12:00NOON, & all will be held at Lee's Funeral Home, LLC with limited seating. There is a MAXIMUM CAPACITY of 80 people at funeral home at any time, And due to continuing health considerations MASKS MUST BE WORN AT ALL TIMES. So you can come to the funeral home WITH YOUR OWN MASK ON ALREADY to attend the Wake/Gathering (or you'll be given one to wear before entering), & Keep your Masks On Inside at ALL times. At the very least you can get hand sanitizer & sign the register book (NOTE: please feel free to bring your own pen -OR- you may bring an address label to paste in register book in lieu of signing), and WALK-THRU to briefly greet the family. If not at capacity, you will be allowed in to have a seat; but if at capacity by the time you get here, you may be required to leave the premises after signing register book, so as not to be in violation nor cause a health hazard, so please govern yourself accordingly. Regardless of if you're able to enter/be seated, or not, social distancing MUST be maintained (please refrain from touching/hugging/handshaking, preferably just elbow bumping briefly if at all). If instructed, PLEASE KINDLY RESPECTFULLY leave the building & premises if at our capacity at any time. PLEASE KINDLY RESPECTFULLY follow & abide by the directions of the funeral home staff/personnel at all times. We Thank You in advance for kindly following directions & policies, so as to make all go smoothly the day of the services, to eliminate further burden on the family, and to maintain the health & safety of All. Any questions, or if any clarity is needed, please call ahead to the funeral home, and/or speak to us from a safe distance if present.

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The Entire Staff of Lee's Funeral Home, LLC respects that the family of Bernice W. Everett entrusted the care of their loved one to us, and that they value the level of service & attention our funeral home provides. We are honored, in turn, to provide comfort, assistance and service to the family of Bernice W. Everett during their time of bereavement.

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Private cremation has already been held in Maryland.

A public Memorial Service is planned for Saturday December 6th, 2025 - friends to gather & visit with the family starting at 11:30AM, and Memorial Service starting 12:00PM, all at Lee's Funeral Home, LLC.

Please still leave condolences now herein on the Memory Wall to express your sorrow, share your memories, and as an expression of sympathy & way to communicate with/offer comfort to the family, that they and others may see, and may be a lasting tribute in her honor.

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As a lasting tribute, you may choose to plant a tree and/or a contribution may be made in her name/memory/honor to a charity of your choice. If sending flowers, since this is a Memorial Service only, sending small plants or vases is preferable & may be delivered either on Friday December 5th, 2025 by/before 6:00pm, or on Saturday December 6th, 2025 by/before 11:15AM to Lee's Funeral Home, LLC. The Family Thanks You!